And etc used instead of etc
I, you, we, and etc. are pronouns.
I, you, we, etc., are pronouns.
However, students are advised to avoid using etc. in an essay and to use phrases such as and other things, and so on instead. Etc. is the short form of et cetera, a Latin phrase meaning and other things The combination and etc. is wrong because it woufd mean and and other things
Things Women Say That Men Misunderstand
Its up to you
If you think this means you have freedom to choose then you are very, very mistaken. A much better translation would be Its up to youto select the right choice which I know but I am not going to tell you because you should know. Making the wrong choice will usually result in an Its okay.