1. I'm single. 2. I have a boyfriend/girlfriend. 3. We're engaged. (= going to get married) 4. We're getting married in June. 5. I'm married. 6. I've been married for... [10 years]. 7. I'm divorced. 8. I'm widowed. (= my husband/wife has died) 9. I'm not looking for anything serious. 10. I'm not quite over my ex. (= I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife)
Discretionary energy is the energy that an employee chooses to exert in service to coworkers or customers at work or not. An employer pays for the fundamental tasks that he hires an employee to perform. The employee exerts the amount of energy necessary to perform the basic requirements of his or her job description. Discretionary energy is the get up and go that the employee is willing to contribute beyond the basic requirements of the job.