Find ways to share responsibility
If you're both working 80 hours a week, why should the wife still have to do all the cooking and cleaning? Try to find a mix of jobs you both do better, e.g. dishes and lawn mowing, and share responsibility. Find ways of creating a routine that involves everyone, If you take the bins out, I will bring them in, You wash, I will dry, etc. This will avoid the nagging housewife syndrome. Remember, you will be living together forever( til death do you part) save some for tomorrow. The world wont come to an end if you don't finish all the laundry today.