Lots of women mistakenly believe that men are looking for a ?weaker? woman who will make them feel like they are smarter and more powerful. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Real men want a woman who inspires them because she has great things going on her own life. They want a woman who has her own purpose other than being in a relationship. A great guy isn?t intimidated by independence and success. What matters to a man is that a woman still has space in her life for a great relationship and is grounded and present when she?s with him. The best way to communicate this to a man is to stay busy in your own life and not suddenly make him your world. Don?t drop your own interests, responsibilities, and friends just to be with him. And then, when you are with him, really BE with him have fun and give your attention to him and what you?re doing together.