Ways to Overcome Anger
Focus on creating a solution
If your goal is to get the other person to admit that theyre wrong, youll probably end up in a power struggle. Focus instead on what youd like to change in the future for example, youd appreciate it if she would come straight to you next time instead of complaining about you behind your back. You can help facilitate this by owning some responsibility that you will listen if he comes to you instead of getting emotional.